fastingfromsexforoneyear

Many Military wives say they worked so hard to be true to their spouse during the deployment.  Thankfully the deployment is over and all the woman around me including myself have been reunited with our spouse.  Now the bigger question remains.  Is something wrong that not just I but other woman I have come across have seen being faithful as hard work.  Should it not be work to be faithful?  I have heard the deployed soldiers look at married woman such as myself with disgust at such a statement. 

Now on to an entirely different topic when a person deploys you seem to either magnify the problems in your relationship or live in denial about your problems.  I have come to the conclusion that to be a military wife you must not be an insecure individual.  The military demanding inconsistent schedules can leave a lot to the imagination.  If your spouse has to leave at midnight to check in on his soldiers at the barracks you might ask your self if he is off to an affair or God only knows…  Than you could just trust the spouse to be a hard devoted worker and is doing just as he stated.